The biggest risk of anal sex is the transmission of STIs. Not to mention changes in mainstream media, self-help and porn - where in an effort to seem new, edgy, and exciting the depiction of anal sex has become more commonplace. You'll also learn the 5 dangerous mistakes that will ruin your sex life and relationship. Q: My boyfriend has been talking to me about trying anal sex. There are a lot of taboos surrounding men in straight relationships who like butt stuff, all of which are socially-imposed and absolutely preposterous. He has penetrated me anally and has now expressed an interest in me stimulating him anally.
But hey men some of us will never be able to take 10 plus inches balls deep up the ass. It's reasonable for him to want to try sex a different way, though I agree with your premise of fair being fair. Depending on your position, your partner can help stimulate other pleasure zones or you can do it yourself. If it becomes too uncomfortable and painful, then tell him to pull his finger out slowly. Tightness is good for wanking, but a vagina that is plumped and wet from its owner being turned on, is a much better sexual experience. Last Longer In Bed 9. What is a butt plug and how can I use it for more pleasure?